Being Positive and Optimist or Negative and Pessimist

The positive and the optimist person, his hopes and ideas have no limits. He is always leaving in a progressive and renewed phases of his life. He is a person who updates himself according to the different situations in which the circumstances put him in. Some of you may say this person is a dreamy person or a person who is living in imagination. I say no and no. On the contrary, he is the ideal person. He is a realistic enough to face all the events of life either they are positive or negative. He already knows that he will come across things that are more than him, more that he can bear and more that he can imagine. However, he knows that he will come across some situations in which he will surmount the hard times. He knows that life holds all the up and down issues and it is up to him to know how to deal with each one of them.  He has arrived to a point in which he does not affect the reality and the latter does not affect him. But together (he and the reality) create some kind of union in which they melt themselves together and they affect each other and this creates some kind of challenge between them. Now, this person that we are talking about is no more positive and optimist but he has a power in which he identifies himself as an affecting power and at the same time he proves that he is not a meaningless person and there is a reason for his existence. There is a reason behind the creation of God to him. For that reason, he is a positive and optimist person.

Far from that kind of people, the negative and pessimist person, his excuses and complaints have no limits too. He is wasting his time crying and blaming life, circumstances and his bad luck. He is always the wretched in this life. He is saying to himself that has gathered all the sadness of people, that’s why others are happy. He is their God of sadness. Life is the reality for him and in turn, reality is always sad. He blames always the circumstances. The most conjunction close to him and that he uses always is IF. He has not the power of doing or working, because he knows already that he will fail. Failure is following him and he follows the failure too. He considers “dreamy” persons stupid. He considers himself the only representative of the reality and the only one who knows the truth. He says always that we cannot do anything towards the power of life, towards the bad luck. He feels himself meaningless in this life. Do you know that when he gives his soul to God he asks him why do you create me and why do not you take me  back to you because I fed up;  do not blame this person, do not say he is meaningless one. I say no and no. he is not created like this. It is sure that he came across some difficult times that make him like that.

Being positive and optimist or negative and pessimist, is not question of destiny. It is a question of choice. We all try to be the first and somehow we may come to the second choice. For me, life is a battle. I may win, I may lose. In fact, I do not know. However, what I am sure of is that I will never give up; I will make my all progress to not giving up. If I win, it is what I am looking for, and if I lose, I will content myself with the honor of trying. The honor of trying to prove that there is a meaning behind my existence, simply because I strongly believe in God, my creator. And finally I strongly believe that he does not create me by chance.